Origin: Healthy Weights
- emotional state suffered by dieters
- hopelessness, despair, self-doubt
Has anyone tried the slim fast shake plan – all you do is have a shake for breakfast, a shake for lunch, and eat a sensible meal everything in the house for dinner.
Unfortunately, dieting is less about food and more about behavior, dissatisfaction, feelings and emotions.
Food and what you should eat is quite simple, the dieting mind is not.
The dieting mind is filled with preconceived notions and charged with hurtful memories.
This post will help you diffuse the power these emotions by creating a level of understanding of the dieting mind with a touch of humor.
This additional understanding and touch of humor will rob your dieting mind of its power, and it's effect on your eating and your feelings about yourself.
Subtle insanity examples:
How many of you (and I’d like to hear from you in the comments section) have:
Are there any others that you can think of? Please share below.
The fact is, that each of these behaviors undermines your attempts at weight loss. The feelings of guilt, shame and frustration ensue. Memories of failure and the wave of emotions paralyzes your motivation to move forward. I’m such a loser. I’ve blown it again.
The sooner we can watch these subtle insane behaviors as passing moments and emotions and not as inherently you, the sooner you will rob them of their power.
Notice that I did not say make them go away or completely eradicate them. Right now, we are seeking to rob them of their power, not solve, fix, or remove them all together.
Everyone overeats from time to time. Everyone makes mistakes. The sooner we can laugh at them, the sooner we can stop beating ourselves up and the quicker we move on emotionally.
You will also find that they occur less frequently. And that you can smile about.
Robbing these behaviors of their power may in fact make them disappear altogether, but even if they don’t, you will something to chuckle about.
Comments
at some point I realized
at some point I realized people around us don't really care or notice or judge us, I think we are a lot less visible than we think we are. So next time you hide a chocolate wrapper make sure you know that you are hiding it from yourself... I know I do
Yep, I've done the check
Yep, I've done the check who's watching when I use the vending machine at work, and then slid the chocolate bar up my sleeve for the walk back to my office. Ridiculous when I think about it. Why would anyone else care that I'm having a chocolate bar? But I think they are judging me and saying, "you don't need that!"
I have hidden chocolate bar
I have hidden chocolate bar wrappers deep in the garbage to hide them from my husband. Since I am the one taking out the garbage, he does not find them. I have realized that the only person I am actually hurting is myself so I managed to cut my chocolate intake down from having it every day to once or twice a week. I also just throw out the wrappers and tell my husband that I bought or had some chocolate. He'll only comment if he's noticed that I snacked a lot that week and not just on chocolate which is a good observation if my weight goes up that week.
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